People, women especially, get angry when you say women are like children. Every woman I had relationship with has told me "I am just a little girl". Everyone knows it's true. Why are people denying it?
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A woman who says „i‘m just a girl.“ is in fact just a girl. There are few women out there tbh.
Same with men. There are many dudes, bros and boys out there, few are man.
We live in a period of time in which people find it more comfortable and save to not do the step forward, into the unknown.
A society which is lacking initiation can be recognised by a violent youth, confused adults and ignored elders.
This guy speaks a lot of very good stuff.
Thank you 🥰
I see that in our cultures, as compared to the indigenous of Colombia for example, do not have a right of passage, a ceremony, or a ritual to mark the end of boy/ girl and the commencement of adulthood, so quite literally we get stuck in child psychology potentially forever. Boys in men’s bodies, behaving like children, drinking, gambling, chasing women, no direction, not taking responsibility for anything. I feel a lot is down to a deficiency in the depth of our culture. We have lost our ancient rights of passage and the consequence is children making big globally catastrophic decisions from the psychology of a child.
You summed it up very nicely! I observed that with the Kogis or in the Amazonas. It was beautiful, powerful, frightening too (for the westener) but to be honest you can see this initiations in any indigenous tribe in the world.
ALSO: In the west, there was a deeper meaning in the traditions we through out of the window. Beeing it rituals in the religions or in the "closed minded" villages with their rituals.
Sometimes it's just hard to distinguish between: a ritual with a loving intention, or a ritual with a controlling intention?
Love knows best.