Can relate...setup btcpay server on a lunanode VM about a year ago for my webstore, initially I was very excited about it and it was an excellent learning experience...in hindsight though, it was a huge time suck for me personally, for something that ultimately handled zero sales and I shut it down...i'm not afraid to dig in and wing it (and probably break things) but theres only so many precious hours in a day as it is and I need to be frugal in picking my battles. On one hand I believe sovereignty requires a personal investment, its not supposed to be easy or free. But on the other, the reality is that this stuff needs to be easy plug and play in order to attain mass adoption.