Time for an update on the adventures of the missus’ old friend group - this one will be a doozy!

The two 7s have had an eventful few months.

The 7 who went on Tinder and had the previous BF split has received not 1, but 2 engagement proposals - 6 weeks apart.

Turns out she’s been spinning plates seeing multiple guys. The first guy is in construction and he has been flying in on weekends to see her (he lives in another city), she said yes, took the ring and made a big song and dance on socials about it. Then he said he wanted to move to be near her so they could start planning a wedding and life together to which she said no and broke off the engagement within weeks but kept the ring..

Other guy apparently doesn’t have her socials because a few weeks later he gave her a ring. He told her he had a “Christmas present” and when she opened it he popped the question. She said yes but has since walked it back, now that was “just a gift” and she wants ANOTHER ring, from Tiffany’s this time. Nevermind she has been shitting all over him with the girls saying he’s too poor and not handsome enough for her, she’s trying to extort another fucking ring out of him..

The other 7 has been dating a guy for 4-5 months now and she’s constantly unhappy. The fella doesn’t earn enough to sustain the lifestyle she wants so they are always arguing with blowups every 2-3 days. What began with weekends away, expensive dinners, and flowers in the honeymoon phase, soon wasn’t enough.

After just 2.5 months dating, before they’d even had sex, she wanted a joint bank account which he will fund 3/4 but she will spend. She’s been hankering for a ring too, clearly envious of the attention the other 7 has been flaunting. She planned out this elaborate proposal dinner at an expensive restaurant with a cake and huge bouquet of flowers and the staff involved and all sorts and “hinted” to him what she wanted.

So anyway last night was the dinner and fella pops the question, sure enough a ring and all the trimmings made for some very glamorous photos for socials. Literally THIS MORNING, not even 12 hours later, she’s complaining that he’s not rich enough and he won’t be able to save enough for the wedding she wants, within 12 months..

The guy had to take out a loan for the ring so yeah, he’s most definitely not going to be afford her lavish wedding within a year.

But the attitude and ingratitude is just amazing. I’ve never seen such toxic, narcissistic behaviour in my entire life and am regularly disgusted when my missus updates me.

These girls are out here collecting engagement rings like they’re fucking Pokémon. They’re just me me me me me, and the guys can never be right because these girls will demand literally opposing things days apart and not understand they are contradicting themselves.

The 8 appears to be courting richer older guys but has kept that more low profile than the 7s who gossip and bitch about everything.

All 3 of the girls are not lacking for money having uni educations and decent jobs/businesses but they’ve got in their heads that they need a rich man to fund some Instagram lifestyle, and anything else would be settling for less than they’re worth.

No doubt these are weak men enabling this, they don’t seem to have a spine between them, but I will say at least they have honest intentions towards long term relationships, unlike the girls who are just harpies trying to get whatever they can out of them.

Dating is a sad sad scene nowadays. nostr:note1hs3td99w09f5glr8tep0kmj7cdjvkjz5u8vnutw9vx829rk8y8nq4lgs7p

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This is probably why wedding ceremonies were created... She said yes and i do. We ALL saw it! Didn't we all just see it? If anybody didn't just see it, speak now... No jewelry store robbery today my frens... 😉

Heartbreaking. Grateful for my amazing wife.

I'm glad the missus' is branching out because that's just horrible...

Fiat is upstream of all this and it might be best to find friends that aren't lost in the bs 🤔

I am surprised that it sounds so difficult to find a beautiful mid these days.

There’s plenty of them out there, be damned if you want to deal with the narcissism of many of them though.

Jesus Christ!! Been thinking I should "get out there", since pretty rare anicee woman just turns up at my door.. But now I'm not sure!!

They’re not all like this, these are just some horrible narcissistic individuals. But it’s not easy when that’s big part of the dating pool

PMac does breed some shockingly High expectations women.. Even some of the 4-6s have the "I'm to good for you" look much of the time..

Online dating gets blamed a lot but I can’t help but think it’s the major driver behind this.

People traditionally paired up within social class, then for the last century or so with less familial involvement it became more about “equality” where pairing up meant someone in your league, 6s got with 5/6/7 but wouldn’t get an 8+ and didn’t have to go to a 4-

It’s only the last 10-15 years that dynamic has gone away and every woman expects an 8+ regardless of where she ranks and that coincides entirely with online dating proliferating.

Sad scene indeed.

Jeez sounds awful. Feel sorry for those guys though, however dopey they’ve been.

Yeah I feel bad because I know they’re getting taken for a ride whilst they don’t. But if I were to say anything (I’ve met the one who proposed last night) I risk creating a big fight for my missus which just isn’t worth it

if a woman can make herself look like an 8 or more in the digital realm then that's what she is worth bigot

Their social media is crazy curated. The proposal last night was all staged with a photographer there and all so these girls really know how to portray themselves well, just a pity their personalities are dogshit

Are these girls in their 20s?

Early 30s

Old enough to know better… or not 😂

You don’t get a clue til after 40

Tbh

There's a lot to unpack there haha. Sounds like the whole modern engagement ring idea needs to be rethought. In the old days a man who broke off an engagement could be sued for breach of promise for ruining the future prospects of the woman, so the ring was sort of collateral. If there's no societal view that the woman suffered a loss why are guys forking out for expensive rings?

Yeah the engagement ring seems to have morphed from a social contract to social media clout.

I don’t know what the societal view is. Mine is definitely very different to these girls though

Trifling.

Also: the first soap opera on #Nostr

This is what happens when men become ashamed of their masculinity.

Both man & woman become deeply unhappy & unsatisfied.

Spot on. The girls aren’t seeking out masculine men for their games here, they’re seeking out doormats who they can manipulate.

And of course then the cognitive dissonance kicks in - they’re happy with the doting part being that which they sought out, but they’re unhappy with the lack of masculinity.

The one who was just engaged complains her fella is indecisive, physically weak, can’t build basic furniture, doesnt ravish her in bed etc., hence the blowups every few days.

They want rich alpha types who simultaneously act as simping beta types, and they want each side of that when it suits them and are constantly disappointed as a result.

Be the good king they want you to be.

Make hard decisions & bear the responsibility of them.

Don't be an emotional bitch around women. Cry with your brothers if you need to.

If you're confused by what they say, treat it as a shit test. A challenge to your position as king.

Be that good wise king they want you to be.