For complete custody of your lightning balance consider running your own lightning node along with btcpay server run over clearnet on your website and have a lightning address based on that url that would be fully custodial.
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Asked my BF to set his umbrel on clearnet. He said politely Fuck off😂😂😂
Ha ha ! Using a VPN of course!
Talk to people on telegram Umbrel group , they tell you how to do it.
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