I went through a multi-year process of getting re-parented by God, through fathering and mothering, which largely gave me what I didn't get growing up, and thank God for it.
So now, I get to father my son the way God the Father has fathered me, and it's may be the third best thing that's ever happened to me.
1. Accepting Jesus into my heart at age 5
2. Marrying my wife, age 41
3. Having my son, age 45
4. Moving to Asia for a while, age 30
5. Becoming a teacher and/or author, age 30 - present