im not saying terrorize your very own kid with the things you are gonna do to his mother that she's gonna love
im saying: this entire level is seemingly erased out of so many families, that often sons wind up becoming surrogate emotional asexual husbands cos dad never became a husband ever again
daughters too
oh yea, my mom? my asexual lesbian life partner?
and ~that's~ the emotional incest
and ~that's~ why this dynamic also surfaces in pornography
because it had been that marginalized, that unsaid, that repressed, as to be titillating, rare, thrilling, taboo, so unusual, exotic
dad is missing. where is dad. where is husband. can see his absence everywhere.
kids can sense everything
kids sense what they dont even know they are sensing
kids try to keep their family together cos that is all they know, what safety means, survival means
kids try to compensate, kids try to fix
how many teenagers are struggling with a shame spiral getting off to incest porn and they ~hate~ this kink, they cant escape it, it makes them feel fucking awful they would ~never~ irl it isnt like that they dont even see their own mom that way but this kink it persists there is no explanation cant tell a soul
