I think I know what you mean. Sats are great for rewarding creators for content, but when creators start DEMANDING sats, that's just a bad look. A few weeks ago I was engaging with a creator on a nostr live. I think they were live in multiple places at once, but I was almost the only person in the nostr live chat. I started actively engaging with them, asking questions, etc. After a few questions they were like "You're asking too many questions, you better be zapping me. Did you zap me already?" That's just bad look. Don't wanna engage with someone, just don't talk to them. Don't wanna answer questions, don't answer them. Yes, people's time is valuable, but asking payment for it isn't usually done in a public live but a private paid appointment. I get the value for value but showing your greed is low-key lame. Especially for literal pennies or fractions of pennies.