Yeah you do have to learn to balance self care with toddler care and it’s very difficult when they’re young because their needs are so pressing and immediate. No way around that. It’s sort of a crucible all parents must walk. I was talking to a billionaire last night who told me that when his children were young it was the hardest time of his life haha so there’s no escaping it. And yet it’s all so worth it. Hard to explain until you have kids.