that's why I said it might not "work" but it doesn't mean it's not a very attractive-seeming option.

and for what it's worth, the most valuable of my met-on-the-internet connections are friends (and business partners) that I do regularly make an effort to travel to see in person. it's not the same as a geographically-proximate relationship, but it's getting close. and the connection is more highly tuned.