nostr:npub107jk7htfv243u0x5ynn43scq9wrxtaasmrwwa8lfu2ydwag6cx2quqncxg in Chachi, if I go to "new group", select NIP29 group, then make it members only, when it creates the group I’m not in it, says “you are not a member of this group yet” then which I click Join it says “failed to send join request”. Any way around that?