For most instances of these private events you were likely gift wrapping to yourself so no one else was involved. That being said the booking function I was using did use gift wraps that could be leaked by other participants. I'm also increasing less of a fan too.
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And, as you pointed out, why gift-wrap events you send to yourself? They often never even leave your home relay, as they're just drafts or whatever.
Exactly 💯
The bunker thing didn't even occur to me. Interesting, thanks.
nostr:npub1wqfzz2p880wq0tumuae9lfwyhs8uz35xd0kr34zrvrwyh3kvrzuskcqsyn is maybe interesting, in light of what you are currently building.