trigger warning . . . #griefsupport

#vent

Family members have gotten weird after someone dies. My mom died, and that was unexpected. It’s been 8 years. My dad’s behavior changed. My sister’s behavior changed. Just this past September, my grandma died (my mom’s mom). And my aunt and my cousin’s behavior changed. My cousin spoke to me and my sister in a really weird way about waiving our inheritance rights. I wasn’t even aware that there was an inheritance. Never thought about it, it never came up. My parents never explained anything about that type of thing.

Just feeling very depressed about it today.

It just feels like the loss does not end with the person who died. You lose others too because they start to behave in an ‘unhuman’ way. Or, in ways I do not understand.