You haven't gotten that "answer" because there is no problem with anarchism that needs to be solved.
anarchism exists around you all the time. you take part in anarchy ANYTIME YOU DO ANYTHING voluntarily: go to the store, go to work, talk to random people on nostr.
in fact, as oppressive as the current western fascism is, you actually live the vast majority of your days in complete anarchism.
anarchism means voluntarism, so for example nostr is completely anarchic, same as bitcoin. you job is also anarchic, because each day you show up and provide service for pay- you do that in a completely voluntary way.
the most common non-anarchic part of most people's lives right now is income and property taxes, which we now have a way to avoid by taking whatever remaining fiat cash we have, and exchanging it for sovereign money. at this stage, the value of even 10% of our pay saved in bitcoin will exceed the value of the 30% lost to taxes over a short time frame.
so your entire premise is incorrect, and it doesn't actually sound you want to answer your own questions. in fact you are simply arguing for continued fiat statism. if that is not the case and you are actually attempting to understand the world then I recommend these two books: (total reading time is under 2 hours)
https://cdn.mises.org/thelaw.pdf
https://cdn.mises.org/Anatomy+of+the+State_3.pdf
you have to do your own research, nothing I say is going to convince you of anything, I only hope to point you towards the truth that you will eventually find on your own. good day