Having a good amount of wealth while single can make it unbearably difficult to find a trustworthy partner! Just sayin'!
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Fake being poor. Us guys can do that. Then when you find a trustworthy woman, gradually reveal that you’re wealthy.
Does that work? Or will it backfire?
That could work. But, then I would be lying to her the entire time up to the reveal. 😅 Hold on. I'm on my way to the used car dealership.
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And look... I just wanna say. SHE'S GONNA KNOW SOMETHING'S UP WHEN SHE SEES AN UNEMPLOYED MAN WHO OWN HIS OWN 1500 SQUARE FOOT HOUSE, A 37K FORD SUV, AND A DECENT SIZED BACKYARD. 😑
I think a girl could understand the reasons for this as long as you don't go too far with the fakery or outright lie to her.
I didn’t mean to lie. Rather to just live a humble life without flaunting your wealth. This way, if she’s attracted, she’s more likely to be attracted to your person.
I dunno, my husband found me. He was never showy about his income or job. But yeah, when he met me his SIL told him to 'be careful' because I didn't own a house and nice car like him at 22 years old.
SO, THEN YOU GET MY POINT?! 🤣
Sorry, but a personal experience can't validate a generalization; which is what I'm giving. 🤷♂️
If you act paranoid about that it would be a huge turn off.. Imagine dating someone and always wondering if they were wondering if you were only their for their money. Hubby put his SIL in her place immediately so I've never had to wonder if he was wondering. But we have been married for 12 years and I still make sure not to touch his income unless I need too. Both he and my best friend me off for my attitude all the time. But I don't ever want him to think it's about the lifestyle. It's actually still stressful from this side.