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Clearing out my room. Getting rid of the first date Starbucks cup 🥹 its time. It’s about 4 1/2 years old now. I know, I know, gross (and I have a feeling there’s a spider living in it)

I kept it cos I was so proud of myself for going on that date - not cos of the guy, he wasn’t a keeper. He was a bit of a numpty, really.

It takes me soo long to decide on someone, so if it ends I’m completely crushed cos I truly love them. Took me two bloody years to go on a date with someone else, and I was so proud of it that I kept the cup, kind of like a trophy. Don’t need it anymore though. Dating is scary, but I’ve totally got this 🙏🏽

Jeroen ✅ 1y ago

Amazing story, it's like a victory cup! Maybe just kick out the spider and keep it after all? 😜

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3shara 1y ago

It totally is! You get it 🫂 but I got to let it go 🥹 spider and all 🫂🫂🫂 things feel different now, I feel more confident that I don’t need a reminder that I was once brave anymore 🫂

Jeroen ✅ 1y ago

That's good. People grow. We learn, we overcome, we get stronger. You got this 💭💪

I have a couple memorabilia from important learning, never throwing those out. Like to have something physical rather than in my mind.

3shara 1y ago

🫂🫂💯💪🏽

That’s wonderful 🥹🫂🫂 nah I get that too. I’ve kept a diary since I was about 11 years old so I keep those and a few letters and things too. I like to look back, but only to move forwards 🫂

Jeroen ✅ 1y ago

wow that must be a stack of diaries. Wish I did that. Must be so cool to read your past thoughts and view on life 🤔💭

3shara 1y ago

I was pretty bad at updating it so it’s not so many, but it is very cool and very funny to read 😂🫂 would highly recommend starting one whenever, cos your old thoughts will always delight you 🫂