The robot icon close to NB is somebody else's phone!! Connecting directly from mine. nostr:nprofile1qqswmdrsyuff0tz6v8e80u7dzn09f3n7khxdyrhsm80jn0scdpdmqpqpf9mhxw309akrx6tevf4xjmt50f6r26rcx3unyamtxcery6r8we6ngc34vd6xs7ttd4jx7e3jdymx5vmhx4kxyurwvf5rwaen09jzummwd9hkuw358qmrjtcmlnu7y 
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Now add that relay to your DM's and now you two have a more "private" method of DM's
Yep.
You have to turn on Orbot and add the recommended relays to your General list to see this though.
Amethyst doesn't automatically connect to unknown relays.
awesome peer-to-peer