Now add that relay to your DM's and now you two have a more "private" method of DM's
The robot icon close to NB is somebody else's phone!! Connecting directly from mine. nostr:nprofile1qqswmdrsyuff0tz6v8e80u7dzn09f3n7khxdyrhsm80jn0scdpdmqpqpf9mhxw309akrx6tevf4xjmt50f6r26rcx3unyamtxcery6r8we6ngc34vd6xs7ttd4jx7e3jdymx5vmhx4kxyurwvf5rwaen09jzummwd9hkuw358qmrjtcmlnu7y 
Now add that relay to your DM's and now you two have a more "private" method of DM's
Yep.