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The author of this image values alone time. I value social time. Because I'm almost always alone.

It is hard to increase your "social" as an introverted single adult. But this isn't obvious because childhood and school throws so much social at you that you learn to take it for granted.

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BitcoinIsFuture 8mo ago 💬 1

I interpret it slightly differently. I think the author values both "alone time" and social time - "quality time with loved ones."

To be alone does not equal lonliness. One can be with their own thoughts, do a project, enjoy nature outside, ride bike, listen to music and 1000 other things.

Alone time can be much better option than being with a toxic person, socializing with a person who angers you, who attacks you, with whom you have to fight verbally.

I think thats why the author mentions "quality time with loved ones" for the social interaction which should be enjoyable time.

Just an opinion.

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Mike Dilger ☑️ 8mo ago 💬 2

I totally agree with that. But when I read "alone time" it was something I haven't myself craved for decades.

BitcoinIsFuture 8mo ago

And thats not bad. Hopefully you valued it too because it is valuable. As well as all the other things the authors meantions. And I hope for you to find the right person that will bring you the quality social time and even love. But for that I think we all need a bit of luck and God's blessing.

Dissident Sound 8mo ago

you're a lucky bastard then.

you should see some people in Manhattan - always running - faking ADHD to get prescription Meth so they can run faster.

i once also got meth prescribed for "adhd" ( i just wanted to lose weight ) and in the office's waiting room were all these fucking high achieving shitheads ( men and women ) - they were all there for their meth prescriptions.

they get ZERO "alone time" no matter what definition of "alone time" you use.