Oh you need a 20yo Melissa friend. When I quit alcohol at around 23 (because I was a solo mama of 2 under 2 at the time), I couldn't party with alcohol because I didn't like the hangover when the kids came home. So I became the sober party driver. And I would go into the clubs early, be the first on the dance floor and then the tables even 😅🙈

The staff wondered what I was on. I chose to be high on life. I just had to readjust my thinking. It took a bit but I switched out, 'my life is so hard, I'm such a failure, my life sux, no one will love me with my two kids' to 'I love my life, my life is awesome' and so it became awesome. If I was 25 again, I'd come party. But now I just want sleep 💤 😆

Sending you lots of good vibes ✨🦋😍💛💜