this is how it feels going out and not drinking alcohol

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unfortunately me everytime i go out

🍵tea is good

I don’t think most clubs sell tea tho.. 🫤

sneaking in a tea and a kettle to the club.

There’s times I would’ve paid for tea bottle service style tbh lol.

new type of club just dropped. a real tea party.

What kind of tea just like regular black tea or something fancier?

every single type of tea. tea on tap too

It wouldn’t even be that difficult.

Yeah probably not since places have kombucha bars now.

No, fortunately you. Alcohol is shit, it only helps us lie to ourselves in the moments we should be honest.

If your friends don't respect your choice, they aren't your friends, at least not now, in this moment.

There's a huge difference between being clean and sobriety. Plenty of people get clean, far less become sober - but for those that do, life can now be lived and loved clearly and honestly.

You sre the fortunate one.

You will likely grow out that phase. I was once like this in my early 20s.

i don’t drink other than some beers sometimes. it just feels like this bc everyone around you (even 30+) is always drinking.

The FOMO is real.

If you felt the hangover I still have you’d think otherwise

yeah ik, this is just how it feels to be surrounded by ppl when you’re not drinking who all drink

Oh you need a 20yo Melissa friend. When I quit alcohol at around 23 (because I was a solo mama of 2 under 2 at the time), I couldn't party with alcohol because I didn't like the hangover when the kids came home. So I became the sober party driver. And I would go into the clubs early, be the first on the dance floor and then the tables even 😅🙈

The staff wondered what I was on. I chose to be high on life. I just had to readjust my thinking. It took a bit but I switched out, 'my life is so hard, I'm such a failure, my life sux, no one will love me with my two kids' to 'I love my life, my life is awesome' and so it became awesome. If I was 25 again, I'd come party. But now I just want sleep 💤 😆

Sending you lots of good vibes ✨🦋😍💛💜

adore you melissa. would love to dance with you one day. (sleep is the best club)

If I can get the midget sleeping in the next 12 months, you never know what could happen. I'll need to go buy a dress or something 😆 💃

Wish I was this mature when I was 23! Wow. Great job

My babies made me. I'm soooo grateful and blessed. Without them I would not be who I am today. I was on a really ugly path of destruction. I'm glad I was brave enough to escape and make a new life for us 💯🫶🙏🏼

FACTS

Lmao dead

not really