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Im going to tell you how I handle women in my life regarding a sour mood after rough day.

First, I try to assess whether they are venting (wanting me to listen)

-or-

Are they asking for advice.

—As a man, I tend to try and fix things. I have found that when women bitch, they usually just want to bitch.

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The struggle I have is that I don't want to reinforce any limiting beliefs they might have.

Often they're wanting to play the victim/judge & I feel like they're wanting me to affirm this.

I find it very difficult to lie even to make someone feel better.

The other challenge I have is simply following along with their story. It's like women speak another language sometimes.

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