Or Amethyst
Based on the answers I got I must announce that it is now mandatory for every nostrich to use 0xchat for DMs!
https://www.0xchat.com/ nostr:note1n4qyhcyx9c4kcdwn8vrhn9uexw28ejmvymqhzlpthyv6vvfzp5ksptvwfz
Discussion
Or Flotilla.
Or Coracle.
Supported now thanks to nostr:npub1jlrs53pkdfjnts29kveljul2sm0actt6n8dxrrzqcersttvcuv3qdjynqn
Link to Flotilla please
https://flotilla.coracle.social/
Still under heavy development, but aims to be a nostr-based discord.