I have very little time for competitive people. They are often driven by unhealthy (though culturally acceptable) thinking, and are frequently plagued by insecurities which make them abusive to others.
On the other hand people who are unusually enthusiastic about life and love building things, especially with other people, are some of my very favorite people. They have abundance thinking, and aren’t focused on themselves. You can build lives and communities with people like this. Where as with the former, you can only help them build their own empire.