If you get married and after that you belong to each other no matter what, neither partner will have incentives to improve, and everything will regress.

A better model would be one where both partners have continuous incentives to grow and become better. This is possible if both agree that either can leave if a better option comes along.

Go on, start coping...

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What a terrible thought lol. Sorry

Exactly 🤫

Pretty sure that is why divorce was invented.

It doesnt help. Entitlement and feeling of ownership remains. Because you know that the one who leaves is the bad guy, it's not your fault. If you knew it's your fault, you would move your ass. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Here is a freshly handcrafted meme that I think would be exactly what a guy like you is looking for. Each male and female can explore sexuality freely. Each male can have 3 wives and each female can have 3 husbands. All together as one extended family that supports each other no matter what. You can opt out and get a divorce at any time too.

I am the jealous type. So it would not work well for me, but I do find this marriage concept truly fascinating.

Nope, brother. There will be no other men in my girlfriends' lives. If she finds someone better than me, she leaves. 😅