Relationships fail when 1 or both people stop working on themselves — they both complacent, lazy, and stop putting in the effort they once did.

Relationships succeed when both people continue to level up as a human. “The best thing you can do for me is improve yourself. The best thing I can do for you is improve myself.”

If you combine that with two people who have the same values & going in the same direction in life, then it’s a homerun.