I've read that post and I know about the block reconstruction, but that doesn't address my argument about bandwidth. If everyone is running filters then nodes and miners will never see certain transactions to cache them.
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Good. Then they don’t need to be seen and can just be dropped.
Until a big miner mines them...
Fair game. The problem is that the big miner would probably be a big pool that unilaterally decides what goes into blocks without respecting what the hash rate providers or node runers might want. And that’s a whole other can of worms. Hopefully FPPS will be getting less and less relevant in the future and the mining centralisation will be fixed to a good extent.
That's okay. Some wounds leave scars that we carry forever; they're part of our lives, and we must embrace them and carry on.