I understand your point but I've been having this argument with Apple users for 13 years now. Apple doesn't change for anyone. They don't need to change until people speak with their wallets.
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Is the public at large going to continue using Apple devices? Do those people deserve access to Nostr and Lightning apps? If the answer to those questions is “yes” then turning this into an Android evangelistic tent meeting is pointless and missing the bigger picture.
The only way to change Apple is to hurt their sales numbers. Everything else is just noise for them as they laugh all the way to the bank.
Besides, the people that need bitcoin and nostr most in the world use cheap Android devices. This argument is very first world.
The first world deserves Nostr and bitcoin too. Even on Apple. Please stop this pointless debate.
And if the first world wants to use it, they can with plenty of options out there. No one is forcing you to use Apple. I don't understand why you're defending a company that clearly hates freedom.