I have just started to run a ln node. Not completely self hosted on my own hardware but using voltage cloud. Fairly simple set up and I am currently experimenting with Zeus and later this afternoon phoenix to see which wallets I think will suit what I'm doing (also connect getalby). Probo end up using both! Muun (marginally lightning), Breez, Blue( now out), WoS, getalby, Zeus and Phoenix. Keeping it simple!....🤣