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If you review your family history you will see how many ‘patterns’ get passed on from generation to generation.

Look to the patterns - the things that have repeated and the stories that get told around the dinner table.

They can often be loops that become familiar, that can create systemic experiences that gets played out again and again by different family members.

Example:

Your grandparents put their life savings into a corner store. Within a few years, the big grocery stores open. The story the family tells themselves that they were unlucky & that it was just bad timing.

(The story can leave out important info like perhaps they never researched their plan; perhaps they were not solid business minded folk; perhaps their products or service missed the mark.)

Then years later you open a meal delivery business only to find that the grocery chains suddenly start selling ready made meals at a margin you can’t compete with.

You and your family start bringing up how unlucky you are, similar to your grandparents. Everyone nods their head, and exclaims yes, that must be it.

These stories get digested, instead of picked apart with curiosity.

One interesting experiment you can do is to find out what stories are told about your birth.

Then try to find out about the stories told about your parent’s birth if possible. Then reflect on any similarities with your children’s birth.

Often themes will emerge.

Ponder them.

Ask yourself, what other themes play out for me in connection to my family?

Are there things you’d like to claim, things you’d like to change or stop?

A powerful strategy for breaking family inherited patterns can be as simple as declaring out loud

“I now demand that all known and unknown agreements that do not align with my highest good be removed now.”

This is a powerful way to disconnect from family patterns that do not serve us, that we aren’t even aware of.

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