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We have to educate women to mute, tho. They often feel obligated to "be nice and friendly" and muting seems mean.

All of the "free speech" and "anti-censorship" rhetoric on here wears down their sense of self-preservation. They feel obliged to let anyone say anything.

ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴇᴀᴛʜ ᴏꜰ ᴍʟᴇᴋᴜ 1y ago

it's not sexist to say that women are more liable to tolerate bullshit and end up in a bad situation because they don't want to accept the red flags and the danger signal because other reasons (usually conditioning)

i think that a social norm about women being trained in self defense both mental and physical would be a very important part of a corruption-resistant society - and it's really just a matter of a few good women stepping up and saying it to their peers enough...

sorry, not sorry, but women are more likely to seek to conform to the expectations they are hearing, so don't be so tame and shy... be nice but tell the girls to punch them back

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Laeserin 1y ago

I didn't say that was sexism. I said it was sexism to suggest women shouldn't use Nostr protocol and no one should develop tools to help them curate their feed and control access to their own data.

All the "go back to Instagram" "repeal the 19th Amendment" crap.

Not the least because it's complete nonsense to suggest that client development is over or that all clients have to be Twitter clones. I just helped some ladies find the private groups from Coracle, yesterday. There, problem solved.