(Sorry to kinda repeat what I said to #[2] - but in case you didn't see it…)

If cost is becoming an issue, do what most of the porn industry does and use Mojohost…

https://cs.mojohost.com/aff.php?aff=273

Our industry uses a lot of bandwidth and free speech issues are big for us - so a decent fit for Nostr.

Specifically for relays - Mojo's new Ryzen severs in their new Detroit data center can handle an incredible amount of computational load. I'm in the middle of migrating to one myself (which will have nostream running on it).