Interesting explanation of the difference between how men and women communicate.
https://blossom.primal.net/d0e008282f30e2a509823aa50a905c608b49f5332da947381e63fe6278aefdfe.mov
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I heard back in the day, boys had a penis and girls had a vagina. Turns out, that was all wrong. What bunch of stupid idiots we were.
You alright? lol
Will watch later, thanks
Let me know your thoughts 🫡
It’s interesting, I think there’s something to it. I’m definitely the literal person, cutting through the emotional overlay to try get to the actual content. It’s my strong baseline.
The thing is, sometimes this is exactly what’s needed. Sometimes, the situation calls for no bullshit, just get to the heart of the matter, figure the thing out and move one. War time mentality.
Other times, the emotional resonance is called for. I think the empathic thing to do is recognize that people have different defaults, and honor how and when each is functionally adaptive. Be forgiving when your counterpart isn’t attuned to the communication modality you’re trying to invoke.
A more accurate description than I've heard in decades.
Right? Makes a lot of sense. Most of the time arguing is probably pointless
Could you please share the source?🙏🏻😁
I would like to listen to the entire podcast.😃
Source: https://youtu.be/PM9rgDBX9u0
Thanks!🙏🏻😁
Welp. I must not be a woman, I'm too direct and practical most of the time.
He does say that men and women can do both and thats why he went with masculine and feminine instead of men and women.
Yes I was going to mention this. My post should’ve said masculine and feminine communication styles 😂
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I was being facetious, not trying to start an argument or get 'splained to. I'm 52 years old and not dumb.
As an alligator of the feminine persuasion, I'm gonna say this feels pretty accurate. Like, I know you know what the words mean when I say them but your actions show that you didn't fully grasp the severity and depth of what they were telling you. And, obviously not you specifically, nostr:nprofile1qqsytuv4el7t3jtjfm7zfrc9q730ked40806he7dx5uctxqk8j4hvfcpr9mhxue69uhhxetwv35hgtnwdaekvmrpwfjjucm0d5q32amnwvaz7tmgd9ehgtnwdaehgu3wd3skueqpzfmhxue69uhhwmm59e6hg7r09ehkuegcvsl2q. More likely a big flamingo...
I think men can be really good listeners if they weren’t trying to problem solve all the time lol probably just need to tell them hey I just wanna vent so please only listen
Useful framing. It’s probably the #1 thing men miss and women overplay.
I agree. I like this framing over the type of framing from the likes of Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit guys.
This is a great take
He’s a great follow. This is the author of that book I recommended to you before!
Never thought of this but yes I get it
Makes a lot of sense. This guy has great insights I highly recommend following him.
We men are so not raised for this.
FFS I raise my sons to mean what they say and say what they mean without being too emotional about shit
And that’s totally fine but at some point you just gotta explain to them that women are different and to use a different approach when communicating with them.
