I have to tell this story. So there was a guy I was told had a crush on me while we were all hanging out at pub with mutual friends. He was cute. As one is want to do after drinking a bit, I got hungry and wanted to go for food. I very specifically wanted a buffalo burger and dragged this guy there because he had to have one too. It wasn’t until we were there eating that I realized the implication of what I’d done when he said “Well I’ve never been dragged out of a pub for a first date but first time for everything.” He ended up coming back to my house to watch a movie. Where he promptly fell asleep on my couch, managed to grab me in a cuddle hold that I couldn’t escape from enough to even grab my glass of wine on the coffee table. He didn’t wake up until the next morning. I never managed to escape his grip the entire night. Watched the movie and eventually fell asleep myself. He was so embarrassed he wouldn’t call me after that. Today is his 40th birthday. He’s married with two kids. He still occasionally gets shit for just utterly dropping the ball that night.