these are excellent examples and also excellent reminders of the kinds of people we allow in our space as even friends.

as far as being flawed—yep we all do these things. but, if we're decent, we also apologize to those we've let down. because we know, instinctually, that it is a betrayal—although a very, very minor one.

but when dozens and dozens of these small flaws are repeated, dismissed, excused away, etc. it's felt on the body as being betrayed. as being taken for granted...