I’m not trying to control anyone. Part of the reason I’m not doing only zaps is that I don’t want to force people to pay me sats if all they want to do is acknowledge they agree with me or like my post. But that’s my belief, and I still think people should have control over how their own posts are interacted with.
If someone says something that offends me, I mute them, simple.
My understanding of ownership in this context is that you own all your data/events here, no one else owns it, that’s why you’re able to move from one client to another since all your data/events are just tied to your key pair. Since you own your data you should be able to say how others interact with it, which only zaps allows for.