I think toxic social media and influencoors have pushed expectations to the obscene. There’s this pressure to make every little thing some monumental event (so that it looks good on video). If you don’t do it, then you must not care.
The following is a non-exhaustive list of events that I will never attend:
1. Gender-reveal party
2. Engagement party where the couple will become engaged at the party.
3. Birthday (or really any) party for a pet.