I heard all that but I believe the truth is you're both trying to get more rational.
I'm actually not sure her and I are a good conversation match. My conclusion at this point is that we're so far apart on metaphysics, and her worldview is so colored by her metaphysics, that we can barely talk about anything.
I said as much here:
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lol maybe.
according to my wife if I became even more insistent on **attempting** to be rational I'd be totally impossible to live with.