Your approach sounds reasonable to me, and is similar to my own approach. I think modern medicine is relatively good at triage, but not much beyond that. It’s seems like it’s important that any person realize that they may not be fit for a reasonable model of survival and accept that fate, if not their own survival, than certainly the survival of potential offspring. It should be more socially acceptable to recuse yourself from the gene pool for conscientious reasons in my opinion. Let’s just face it, not all people are fit to survive, and even fewer are fit to procreate. This process shouldn’t be the current free for all that it currently is. Fully 50% of pregnancies are accidental. Why not separate sex from procreation?
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I've accepted my own mortality on a deep level. It took a while & resulted in large scale changes to my beliefs & perspective on things.
I think this is very much a spectrum but that most humans live in almost complete denial of their mortality even into the latter half of their life. Most people go through a personal crisis as it becomes apparent their meat sacks are impermanent.
My biggest objection is around the centralised decision making of appropriate treatments & the socialising of these costs. This should all be left to the free markets.
Yours might be a sack, mine is a suit! 🤣