Hey mate. I use vpn all the time and have no issue. You can just look at my relay list. Nostr wine and the paid one of that as well is a go to

Welcome

Hello

With the people to ask if you have problems:

https://eden.nostr.land nostr:npub12262qa4uhw7u8gdwlgmntqtv7aye8vdcmvszkqwgs0zchel6mz7s6cgrkj

https://nostr.wine nostr:npub18kzz4lkdtc5n729kvfunxuz287uvu9f64ywhjz43ra482t2y5sks0mx5sz

https://nostr.thesamecat.io nostr:npub1wtuh24gpuxjyvnmjwlvxzg8k0elhasagfmmgz0x8vp4ltcy8ples54e7js (me)

small relay but wss://relay.nostpy.lol is VPN friendly

wss://relay.poster.place

Free and vpn friendly and you can say nigger

Welcome to #nostr

No issues on #GrapheneOS + #Mullvad (wireguard).