That makes sense, thanks! Understanding relays I think should be one of the first onboarding steps. Probably no way to have it both decentralized and when you can delete…
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I agree to a point. It's good to know (and be able to choose) where you send your data.
But people don't need to understand SMTP to send an email or HTTP to use a website.
These protocols are simply abstracted away from us by our software so we can just focus on our own problems.
Hopefully in the future people will use Nostr with just a vague idea of what it is and whats possible, while their tools can make a bunch of decisions for them so they don't have to think about whats happening under the hood.