What is a good connection strategy for relays?Take the fastest? Those that those you follow use? Just as many as possible? Thanks.
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i pay for two, eden.nostr.land and nostr.wine and i also often use relay.damus.io and relay.nostr.band, and use nostr.build to host my occasional bouts of photographs and screenshots
you don't need a lot, and you don't need to follow a lot... follow too many and you'll start to get overwhelmed by content and miss things, use too many relays and - well - it's mainly bad for your mobile data allowance but also makes your client run slower
the technical details of how relays are selected is still, for many clients, voodoo, unfortunately, which is why i prefer nostrudel, which correctly implements (IMO) the "outbox" (aka, gossip) model - which is about advertising where you publish and where you search for your content, so that other clients choose these for example for DMs or if you reply to a message from somone.