Mr. Rogers is correct. I met my wife when I wasn't even looking.

Also, anyone who says "all women are a way" is a retard. First, like men, within the class of women there are a range of personalities. Second, the statement often entails that the man needs to change himself to get women, which is really advice that the man be inauthentic, which will eventually fail — maintaining an inauthentic lifestyle for long durations is improbable, and it won't result in happiness.

Look, if you work out, etc. do it for you. If it attracts a good woman that's a bonus. At least it's authentic in such a case. But don't do it just to attract a woman, that's not fair to you or her.