That has nothing to do with not being straight. This has everything to do with raising children who treat and judge others poorly. Everything you said applies to straight people in a proportionate way.

I’m straight, and I have many friends and colleagues who aren’t straight and are exceptional human beings to others, themselves, and me. They just love. That is the absolute truth. All the pain and danger they have ever encountered is from people who do not accept that truth. I’m not going to be able to convince you and you have the right to your own beliefs, but I will defend them against people like you for as long as I live. Peace.✌🏼