I find this puzzling. I've literally never been harassed on Nostr in the 7 or 8 months I've been here. I've muted a handful of accounts because there's some shit that I just don't need on my radar, but even that wasn't directed at me.
No moderation means that it's up to us - mute freely, post freely, zap freely - but along the way we will no doubt be exposed to stuff that we don't like.
In any case, Kayla - I'm sorry this is happening to you!
[And to all the folks who are building out Nostr, whatever your gender, you have my immense gratitude 🙏💜]