Dude I’m 90% sure my wife is a Fed, but I’m still free, just use good opsec. Limited hangouts once in awhile.
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Ask her the same question and you'll find out.
Another good test is to call her a bitch randomly.
If she finds it endearing she's definitely a fed and doesn't want to get her emotions into it. She's just recording your every moment with those remote control birds in your lawn🤷🏽