CAN YOU HOLD SPACE FOR ANOTHER?

Like really truly hold space for them?

One of the most generous gifts we can give someone is our ability to be WITH them without trying to get them somewhere or get something for ourselves.

To hold them energetically without turning the conversation back to us.

To refrain from saying 'me too,' 'in my experience,' 'I can so relate,' or 'how about this.'..

To resist fixing, guiding, saving, or moving at a different speed.

To meet them where they're at and for that place to be absolutely OK.

When we hold space for another, we allow them to move gently from their head to the heart. And if the heart feels safe and seen, we@@ will witness the transformation of the soul stepping forth, which is an honor indeed. We all yearn to be witnessed like this. We all long for someone with the capacity to truly hold us.

Can you hold space for others, without fixing them or turning the attention back to you?

Who in your life has the capacity to hold space for you?

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Definitely an invaluable skill 💜 in my life there was only one person that could do this.

This right here.

The biggest tool we have for calming down and #coregulating is each other.

Learning how to be close with fellow humans, without the CPTSD and emotional attachment issue many of us were brought up with, and just HOLDING SPACE for people you enjoy.

This is how the world changes for the better. When we can feel empowered, we can empower others.

Are you managing a lot? Are you providing for others without providing the space for yourself?

Learn what it feels like to have SPACE HELD FOR YOU.

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