It’s so hard though , most people I’ve tried to talk to either laugh or get defensive. I have noticed the more I learn the more relaxed I am when talking about it , I mean I have no investment in their decision either way… so maybe it’s just me becoming more comfortable, I wish I could explain in layman’s terms , but it is quite complex and goes against almost every societal norm. I’ll never give up though. I’m happy planting seeds ~ time will take over the germination