The DNS isn't a problem, I have several suitable domains and have read a couple of tuts on the Lightning and NIP-05 aspects of that:
[Guide to create Lightning Address redirection on your domain](https://orangepill.dev/bitcoin-guides/guide-to-create-lnaddress-redirection-on-your-domain/)
[Guide to verify your Nostr profile with a NIP-05 identifier on your domain](https://orangepill.dev/nostr-guides/guide-to-verify-nostr-profile-nip05-identifier-with-your-domain/)
### Here's what I'm looking to do, and pls feel free to respond with links and or your recommendations...
* I usually work with XLM, ZEC, and XMR. I only trust non-custodial wallet solutions (I use CEX's, **do not trust regulated **CEX's like binance, coinbase, etc.).
* I'm using nos2x and looking at *Alby*, but I'm looking for a non-custodial wallet solution for Lightning - basically, I do not "trade", I use the cryptocurrencies listed above for day to day retail and wholesale commerce solutions where I sell or buy goods and services - I think **Zaps (SATs) sounds kewl for paywalling articles I publish (and just about everything including candy bars and beer), or anything that includes personal and business transactions for everyday commerce... Just like reaching into my pocket to buy a can of Bang liquid crack containing 300mg caffeine.
Again, satoshiwallet is a custodial wallet and I'm looking for non-custodial wallets - Do they exist and which ones do you recommend for Lightning? Currently I run a couple of non-custodial full chain wallets for Monero (XMR) and Shielded ZEC, and my fav for many years is XLM; so I'm no stranger to cryptocurrency as ***cash money**. I do not *trade* or *speculate* on crypto either.
* Solution: I want to set up a non-custodial lightning wallet solution for myself under one of my domains, use that same domain for my NIP-05 verification (puts me in the nostr directory, right?) and then set up my DNS and Nginx/Apache servers to accommodate those virtualhosts and be done with it so I have my easy to share nostr and Lightning aliases (i.e., joeschmoe@SLD.TLD).
I can use some fav DEX's that I like to swap assets between other cryptocurrencies that I currently use and BTC/SATs/Zaps/whatev without touching any regulated CEX's in the world of *fractional reserve, regulated KYC bullshit*, and be free of the dystopian hand in my pocket bitches.
* Finally it appears that I'm already verified, to some degree - I have a blue checkmark [here at Iris](https://iris.to/tallship), can find myself via [Satellite.Earth too here](https://satellite.earth/@tallship@iris.to), etc., but I'm not convinced that I'm actually NIP-05 registered/verified.
Any advice, suggestions, links, etc., are much appreciated, and I'll be sure to author an article or series of articles for the benefit of the nostr community (free - no paywalls) once I find a, or a few, solutions to this particular requirement.
If there's something I cannot do (say, Lightning with non-custodial vs custodial wallets), or even if I need to run fullchain solutions on a box, this is most particular stumbling block and, well... I guess I'll have to accept that for the time being, but I'm hopeful that whatever services I need to set up and host on the infra in my data center will suffice.
Okay, I'm still new here, relatively speaking, so I'll post the hashtags that I think are expected here at swarmstr.com and be confident that I won't need to go to one of the deprecated, privacy disrepecting silo networks like *Reddit or Serverfault / StackOverflow* for answers... and truth be told, most of my colleagues in the *ActivityPub powered portion of the Fediverse* aren't really amiable to the mission or visionary optimism here in the **nostr* world - so I'm asking the community here :)
I'm hoping that my stated goal here (as an privacy advocate of self-hosted FOSS solutions) is clear, but I'll be more than happy to clarify anything if there are lingering questions, or if I wasn't already clear on the objectives I'm trying to achieve.
One more thing...
* **Damus** is not a solution in this case, as **I am NOT** *a Mac or Apple user* - **Linux and Android please** - I'm a 3 decades long FOSSie, and if you look at my profile, I'm a committed **UNIX** head (xBSD and Linux).
Apologies, if Markdown doesn't work and my post is ugly as a result.
Okay I guess I'm supposed to leave some hashtags now :)
#asknostr #nostr #FOSS #Linux #UNIX #Slackware #Debiantard #OpenBSD #nostr #plebchain #tallship
I look forward to hearing your thoughts, suggestions, and especially, links to tuts with #solutions.
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