i like monero, i use it and have taken the time to figure out how to run a node and mine to that node ( truly impressive user experience compared to the equivalent in btc).

but, since i dont need anything near an 'enemy of the state' level privacy..its just easier to use lightning for now since its more accepted. but im ready to flow in between the two dynamically when the need arises 🤙

The tool of choice is holding my own keys

at the end of the day its about freedom from goons wanting to freeze or seize my cheese