The problem with the misgendering is that they leave no space for good-faith mistakes, or simple forgetfulness. And that's really counterproductive because they're alienating people who would otherwise be accepting of them. It's gotten a little militant. I don't care if people want to referred to in a certain way. I'm respectful of others and wouldn't go out of my to hurt them. But I'm a human being who doesn't always get it right. And when I make a mistake, it's not due to some malignant passive-aggressiveness. It's just because I made mistake. I think that reasonable space has to be restored